Yesterday, I learned something really important.
I was hurting my future husband without realizing it.
I was saying things, I thought were funny in front of his cousin at my fiance's expense.
That is never a good thing.
What's worse, I didn't realize I was doing it until he made a comment to me after everyone had left.
"M, Do I make comments about your body, facial expressions, habits, in front of other people?"
I had to think and say that I could not remember it.
My Jay made me realize in a very gentle way what I was doing to him in front of his family.
I was not respecting who he was and is to me.
I failed yesterday in my respect of my husband...
Thank you, Lord, for giving me a man that knows to communicate with in private and not embarrassing me in front of others even when I have done that. Thank you, Lord, for giving me a man who loves me and who respects me...always putting my needs above his.
Lord. Help me to honor him as He has honoured me.
Miriam
